Life and marriage become boring when the same thing is done over and over and just basic routines a kept. You may sometimes feel like your relationship is stagnant and will need some sort of boosting to get it back on track. Sometimes you may find out that the romance at the start of the relationship is all gone.

Surprisingly, the smallest things which may seem meaningless, are the little sparks that your relationship might just need to glow again.

Below are some tips to bring back the burning flames in your relationship. 1. Be Playful: When was the last time you played around with your partner as if you were again teenagers? Teasing each other will only warm up your hearts for each other.

2. Sexy Messages: send each other sexy messages all day. There is no need to feel shy flirting with your partner. Leave sexy notes in your partner’s lunch box.Use sticky notes and give your partner instructions to find a sexy treasure.

3. Watch dirty movies together. These kinky movies might just cause some arousal or erotism between you both or might just be a laughing matter for you both.

4. Dress up for your partner. Do you know how you used to dress up while you were dating? Return to looking gorgeous as always.

Again, spice up your bedroom time with new lingerie all the time. Make him feel like ripping you apart as soon as he walks through the door.

Take the time to buy the lingerie you admire for your partner. Make them feel comfortable dressing in those kinky lingerie you admire others wearing in magazines and posters.

5. Make time for just you both. Remember when it was just you both before the kids? Sometimes, you need to return to that calm and quiet.

Take the kids to their grandparents or a relation for a weekend or even go to the movies for a day with the nanny.

plan a weekend out and surprise your partner. Go to that favorite place or discover a new place together. There is always a lot to do out there.

6. Give small gifts. Pick up flowers on your way home. Surprise your partner at the office or place of work with a lunch pack or even a rose.

Take your partner out to lunch as a surprise. Go to that fancy place that represents something to you or your partner.

7. Be open for a quickie:  When you look at your partner all dressed up and smells great, what comes to mind. If you feel aroused, and you know your partner can spare 5 minutes, don’t let them walk out the door.

Get a quickie right there. it will be one of the best sex you will have ever. Nothing will be able to stress your day again. Your mind will be clear. The smile alone on your face will make your co workers feel welcomed to work with you.

Be Spontaneous:Do not always wait for a specific day or time to be able to fool around with your partner. Take them unawares. Surprise them with they least expect.

8.The sex: This is one of the most essential ingredients to spice up your relationship. Don’t let any excuses come in your way when it comes to having sex.

If your partner feels tired or not in the mood, give them a very sensual massage, light up the room with spotted candle lights, dress up in a sexy lingerie and scent the room with some essential oils. There is no way he will walk past you to fall asleep.

9. Dominance in bed: It’s not always the man who has to be in control. The lady has to sometimes, take total control and drive your passion.

Note ladies, it is your man so feel free to show him what you can do. Those fantasies of yours,

10.Communication: When you were dating, you could stay on the phone forever saying all the silly things to each other. You will not want to go to bed without hearing each other’s voice. Waking up in the morning, you want to talk to each other again.

Again, tell your partner what you like and how you want to be handled. If you feel like a princess or prince today and want to be treated as such, say it. If you feel differently and want to be ravaged, feel free to tell your partner to take you to that point of explosion.

11.Compliments go a long way to boost your partner’s confidence. Tell your boo how cute she looks with that new hairstyle or how handsome he looks in that blue shirt. Say it and mean it.

Tell your partner how their new look makes you feel. Do not be shy to tell your partner how much you admire their curves.

12. Nagging is out of the question. You know we all need space. Do not spend your precious time nagging at your partner for either being late home or not doing the things you want when you want them.

Understand that everyone needs space sometimes to reboot. You have to understand that even though you are in a relationship, your partner needs some room to breath, hang out with his friends or go to a spa alone.

13.Take care of yourself: Not because you are in a relationship should you abandon yourself. Looking good and always smelling fresh is a turn on for most people.

You looking neat and fresh will make you happy. That will equally make your partner feel proud relating to you.

14: Be grateful to your partner for all the sacrifices they are making. Acknowledge your partners input to keep the relationship going.

Do not base on the negative or things in your relationship and keep complaining and nagging about them. That might even cause your partner stay out long at night just to avoid any irrelevant confrontation with you.

15. Control your anger. There are those days your partner will feel like everything is wrong. Be supportive. Do not engage in exchanging words at the peak of the anger. Wait util everyone of you is calm enough to address the issue at hand.

If you cant stand being in your partners presence in that state of anger, walk away politely. Come back to the issue at a later time, when both of you a willing to talk about the problem.

Most especially, NEVER GO TO BED ANGRY